{"id":6694,"date":"2026-07-08T18:01:20","date_gmt":"2026-07-08T18:01:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/houstonmovingjournal.com\/?p=6694"},"modified":"2026-07-08T18:01:20","modified_gmt":"2026-07-08T18:01:20","slug":"bay-area-restaurant-goes-viral-for-strict-policy-on-misbehaving-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/houstonmovingjournal.com\/?p=6694","title":{"rendered":"Bay Area restaurant goes viral for strict policy on misbehaving children"},"content":{"rendered":"<div> <!-- --> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p><span><strong>FOSTER CITY, Calif.<\/strong> &#8211; <\/span>A restaurant in Foster City caused discourse online after a social media post went viral last week on the establishment&#8217;s policy about fining parents when their children run around and are unruly.<\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"https:\/\/houstonmovingjournal.com\/?p=6692\">Ex-Texas Tech professor admits to running fentanyl ring, trading drugs for sex, documents say<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Chez Xue, which translates to &#8220;House of Xue,&#8221; is a family-friendly restaurant, but the owner has concerns about it being treated like a &#8220;playground.&#8221; Their policy was implemented months ago to curb these incidents.<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m very proud of the fact that my restaurant has always been and will continue to be a family-friendly environment,&#8221; Chez Xue owner You You Xue said. &#8220;We are a gathering place for families, people bring their children. We have like four or five high chairs on standby for that, so we&#8217;re always going to welcome children, but we ask that people just respect the fact that this is a restaurant.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<h2>Restaurant policy provokes conversations<\/h2>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>The backstory:<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>The June 28 post, made on X by user &#8220;Raymmar&#8221;, highlighted the restaurant&#8217;s policy.<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We are not a playground. Please ensure children REMAIN SEATED at all times and respectful of fellow guests and the dining environment,&#8221; the restaurant&#8217;s policy says. &#8220;Running around, shouting, making noise with utensils, etc. WILL NOT BE TOLERATED!&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>It also said that guests who don&#8217;t abide by the policy may be asked to leave, and that parents will be held financially liable for the damage caused by their children.<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>Examples of parents being held liable are also available for the public to see.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- --> <!-- --><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><span>Image 1 of 2<\/span> <\/p>\n<div>\u25bc<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span>Image of Chez Xue&#8217;s policy on children being unruly, treating the establishment like a &#8220;playground.&#8221; July 7, 2026. Photo: Chez Xue website.\u00a0<\/span> <!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- --><\/div>\n<p> <!-- --><\/div>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>The most recent incident was back in January when a parent paid around $5 after a child was playing in the booth seats and bumped into the table, causing a teacup to break. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We have this long booth seating, and the children were running up and down, playing on that, and then they ended up knocking, sort of stumbling and falling into a table and knocking a teacup to the ground. It was important for us to put our money where our mouth was,&#8221; Xue explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>The other example of damage was in April 2025 when a customer&#8217;s child picked up and dropped a credit card machine on the ground, causing the screen to shatter. The restaurant charged the parent $327.03 in damages.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>In December 2025, a parent was charged $109.38 after their child carved designs into the table using a dining utensil.<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I honestly put this notice on my menu because I didn&#8217;t want to put my employees in the position of parenting other people&#8217;s children. It should not be their job,&#8221; Xue said. &#8220;\u2026Their job is to serve the guests, not to, you know, run a daycare or a playground, and although the message that we&#8217;re sending should be obvious, unfortunately it was not obvious, so we had to put it forward.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>In response to this policy, Xue noted that it&#8217;s been positively divided amongst community members. While some are arguing that they shouldn&#8217;t charge for a simple broken teacup because that&#8217;s the cost of running a business, other people have generally been very supportive.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"https:\/\/houstonmovingjournal.com\/?p=6687\">Man arrested after allegedly throwing Molotov cocktail at wheelchair user<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve received calls from community members who have never been to my restaurant before. They saw the article in the news, and they said, &#8216;You&#8217;re saying something that all of us want to say, but we&#8217;re afraid to say it,&#8217; because you know, you don&#8217;t want to rub other parents the wrong way,&#8221; Xue said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>He welcomes the conversation of people expressing their feelings, but wanted to clarify that the billing from damages isn&#8217;t a scheme to make money off charging people.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>Their intention is to send the message that Chez Xue is a respectful, communal dining space that embraces families.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is just asking people to treat the restaurant as they would like their home to be treated,&#8221; Xue explained. &#8220;My goal has always been to bring accessible Chinese food to the public in a fun and upscale environment where people feel great eating here\u2026 Dining out is a privilege for so many people. Still, a lot of families, you know, they don&#8217;t get that kind of time to go out with their friends and family many times a week, sometimes just once a week, once a month.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>Xue reiterated that having people&#8217;s dining experience be disturbed by a child running around or screaming is what the policy is trying to amend.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>Since being implemented, the restaurant hasn&#8217;t had any severe incidents with children in the restaurant. Xue believes the policy is working and doesn&#8217;t have plans to take it away any time soon.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<h2>Speaking up for other businesses<\/h2>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>Dig deeper:<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>Chez Xue&#8217;s statement goes beyond the restaurant. Other family-friendly businesses that also want to create a welcoming, respectful atmosphere for everyone dining in have faced this same dilemma.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>Xue said that this viral moment has helped him realize that he&#8217;s speaking for more than just his restaurant, but also for the industry at large.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Not every restaurant can put such a blunt and unvarnished message on their website, so you know we&#8217;re taking that responsibility, and hopefully this will only result in positive changes like it has already at my restaurant,&#8221; he said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>As long as the children are sitting down and respecting the restaurant environment, Chez Xue will continue to welcome everyone and maintain a family-friendly atmosphere.<\/p>\n<p> <!-- --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If we wanted to ban children, we would have done so already,&#8221; Xue joked. &#8220;\u2026 All my team love children. 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